
hi hhi
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sis remember my ex the one I used to tell you,I followed your advice not to
switch sections and uhm..
well the problem is he always says "no love no love"everyday
and it's making me wonder why is it a big deal for him to say that
after all out relationship ended like months ago so there's no big deal
but why is he acting as if he hasn't moved on yet or
out break up was just recently.I m not telling im affected but im
really concerned on why he acts like that.
our classmates also tease yea it's normal but one of my classmate
said why not talk to him.I told them why he make the first move.
im not affected anymore but I just wanna know why.hhe
tnx in advance 


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If you wanna know 'why', then I guess start building a new friendship with him. Though I live by the thought of, "Exs cannot be friends." Don`t mind me.
anyhoo~ I think you can make friends with him. Who knows, maybe that will be the key to a new 'relationship'. I think you still love him, right? If that thing bugs you, then you are affected. No matter how you tell other people that you`re not, you`re still affected. `Cause you used to love him, and I guess you still love him. :]
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awa,ok but I can't swallow my pride 


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That`s ohkay, Iam not telling you to approach him right now or something. Just wait for the right time. ![]()
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ok.hhi tnx sis.but why is he doing those stuff?


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Urrrgghh! i really have a lot lot of problems in school.
with all the nerve racking examination, and all the assignments that is already equivalent to a board exam
it makes me feel so exhausted.
i cant do this anymore with my own.
im already tired of schooling, i think i need a break. i know most of us are having this kind of situation but me, i felt ;like im already giving up with my school life now. i cannot anymore divide my time in school and with my personal life. if only i could have super powers, i know i can do this all. 
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yourgalsoulm8 wrote:
Urrrgghh! i really have a lot lot of problems in school.
with all the nerve racking examination, and all the assignments that is already equivalent to a board exam
it makes me feel so exhausted.
i cant do this anymore with my own.
im already tired of schooling, i think i need a break. i know most of us are having this kind of situation but me, i felt ;like im already giving up with my school life now. i cannot anymore divide my time in school and with my personal life. if only i could have super powers, i know i can do this all.
If u have lots of problems at ur school,try to talk to your school guidance counselor,i know all schools have this one staff...
and consult to your parents;) and about your examination...join on a group study so you dont feel alone.and this is fun too.
and breathe for a sec(dont loose your breathe)
and yeah,you should need a break(getaway to palawan)
,another for that,try to read a book,this can make peace at ur brain:)....and go have a bathtub to revitalize your body and sleep early!dont turn on the computer if you are really tired.
and give urself a break,how bout having an icecream with your bf of bff's?and you should be proud of it coz ur really working hard for school .gif)
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and were leaving here in a reality world!that means you gotta try your best to enter your dream world 
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^ Wow, tough friend huh? Hmm. Have you tried confronting her? Have you tried telling her that what she`s doing is not right? She`s not just ruining your group`s reputation, she also makes people hate you. Well, based on what you said. I think you and your group should confront her 'in a polite way'. Maybe you could settle things, right? But if she won`t listen, then it`s her problem. At least you guys did your part already.
There`s only two things why people tend to step on us. One, they`re jealous of what you are. Or two, they`re insecure of what you have. Go girl, I know you can talk to her in a nice way. ;-)
Control your anger, don`t let anger control you. :]
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I Was Kikay Girl wrote:
^ Wow, tough friend huh? Hmm. Have you tried confronting her? Have you tried telling her that what she`s doing is not right? She`s not just ruining your group`s reputation, she also makes people hate you. Well, based on what you said. I think you and your group should confront her 'in a polite way'. Maybe you could settle things, right? But if she won`t listen, then it`s her problem. At least you guys did your part already.
There`s only two things why people tend to step on us. One, they`re jealous of what you are. Or two, they`re insecure of what you have. Go girl, I know you can talk to her in a nice way. ;-)
thanks for the help>
repu for you.
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. but when i see her face and her friends it makes me want to give them a lesson but i cant. i cant avoid being hurt. Last edited by rixvanity01 (2009-07-26 09:46:22)

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Hello, Rica. :bye:
We can`t avoid people from hating us. But if you know that you`re innocent and you`re conscience is clear and you know pretty well that you didn`t do anything against them, then why get hurt? Just ignore them. Or her. Don`t let your emotions control you, control your emotions. There`s this saying; "People who let us down are the ones who have big hatred and disgust to themselves. They won`t let you down if they don`t have a reason. It`s either they`re insecure at you or jealous at what you have." That`s it, just ignore them. I`m pretty sure she`ll just stop doing those mean things to you. Just don`t do anything against her. `Cause if you do, then you are saying that you`re just like her. ;-) But if she will step on your dignity or hurt you physically, then that`s another story. You hafta fight back. ;-)
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jemimah,right? well, thank you. it really helps me. keep it up!
hope u dont have serious problems 2..
thnx again! 
they dont hurt me physically but they do it verbally but they keep backstabbing me even if i keep ignoring them. and every time they see me they are acting like an antagonist in a story and sometimes if they see me they keep staring at me and one them called at my house and telling stories that are completely negative about me && they just wanted to break my friendship with my BFFs. i just hope they'll gonna realize what they're doing. sometimes, i just wanted to transfer to another school so i dont see their faces everyday but its hard to make new best friends again.

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My boyfriends and I has a conflict..
even if our relationship is still strong, he is already chatting other girls and trying to make me jealous. I already gave him a second chance even if it really hurts. He is very open-minded. He tell secrets with someone who he really doesnt really know. He also spread that we are already gf&bf even if i told him not to tell anyone. I did not even tell my best friends but he he almost told everyone in our batch about it. I got mad at him cause he's trying to end up our relationship even if there is no reason and worse, for his best friend. He told me that his best friend wants to end up our relationship. I know that his best friend is more important than me but why will he break up with me with no reason. He told me that he still loves me and he'll gonna cry if he'll gonna lose me.. I just cant understand him..He already knew that I'm mad at him after he knew about that he also got mad at me. He told his classmates that im mad at him coz he did not come to our date. It's so very selfish. would i still give him another chance? or will i end our realtionship badly?

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Hello Jessica! Hmm. If I were you I'd really break up with him. You already gave so many 'second' chances, right? He never learns his lessons. And if he really loves you, why does he have to chat with some other girls and why isn't he doing anything to change his attitude towards you. He has to fight for you, right? Like, why is he listening to his bestfriend? I am not saying that we whouldn't listen to them but, don't you think it's really unlikely for a supportive bestfriend to say such things?
If you'd give him another chance, you'd feel the same thing over and over again. Why not let him feel that hurt just for once? If he's really meant for you he'd do everything to win you back or something. Okay, brighter side. He's a jerk. Hmm. A guy who doesn't know how to take care of a wonderful girlfriend is a jerk. You're too much for him..I know that. Forget about him, move on. Like what they always say, 'There is someone better waiting for you'. That's intuition. You have to believe it. Lol.
I don't know if I made sense at all. I mean, I am the kind of person who doesn't like second chances and so on. XDD
Anyway, good luck to you and..just get rid of him. :]

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Hello, my problem is I have a girlfriend through text, I already love her. But someone replied using her number and asked me who am I. I replied, I asked her where is Michelle. She told me there is no Michelle there. I asked her if shes the owner of the cellphone, she said yes.
What should I do?
sorry for my bad english
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Aw, that's really bad. Not bad as in bad.. but bad as in, k, idk~.
Scenario A; That girl made a mistake and told you that there's no Michelle but there is. Because maybe your 'girlfriend' gave you her another name. So girl2 didn't bother asking if there's Michelle or no.
Scenario B; You've got played. She found another guy through text also and started making an affair with him. Or, any other reason.
Let's just forget about Scenario A. Since it's really unlikely.. Sorry. So, here's what you're gonna do.. forget about her and believe me, having a relationship thru texts, chats, or phone calls, is way unacceptable. That's like not included in the golden rules or something. You have never laid your eyes on her, you don't even know if you're really loving Michelle. What if she's just another person. In short, this girl is using the other girl's identity. Unless, you already know her, personally. But you don't, right?
But what if I am wrong? Hence, I'm a moron. ((=
Like what I have posted above, good luck to you and.. get rid of her. :]

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I think I was liking some1 and I was happy whenever i see him. I told him I have a crush on him, it was just a crush anyway... all of my close friends already knew that. Then we startd caring at each other, he often smile at me knowing he's one of those "suplado" guys I used 2know.Sometimes he textd me sweet messages, telling that he loves me.I was an open person so I always tell stories to my bestfriend about him, how he smiled at me that made me like him. Then one day, I couldn't handle my feelings anymore, I told my besfriend that I'm inlove with this guy. I thought it would be fine to tell her what I feel but I was wrong! She rejected it, she told me that it was just a crush but not to say "just a simple crush". My bestfriend always frown everytime this guy is with us ,Im wondering why... Then days passed and I discoverd something. My bestfriend also like this guy and I don't want to ruin our friendship because of it.
Do you think it would be better to let go of my feelings?
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^Aww. Okay, where should I start? Okay, ahm... Joymie, you should not be worry about it. You and you're bestfriend had a crush on that guy. It means that guy is really handsome. LOL. But, seriously, if you really love that man, or if you(you told that so) really in love with that man, then why should you give up? There's no reason in giving up on him. Is it just because you're BFF likes him too? Then you don't want to destroy your friendship? Okay, lemme say, it is really the reason, then what if for example, that man really had a crush on you and not in your best friend? Say something in your best friend that you had had like him or it was not just a simple crush but you love him(if you already love him) Or just ask the guy and let him choose between you and her. It's up to him who would he have choose. But if you had decided like giving him up, then it's up to you.
Good luck and I hope it will help you.
I don't know if my advices are right! .gif)



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