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then forget about him.. you will get nothing if you'll just think and think about that.. past is past, remember? i also suggest that you don't pay attention to him anymore.. let him prove the so called "love" first.. about what you ask to me, how did i know that there's so many guys out there who loves you, of course they didn't tell me.. believe in the saying that you are born with a partner.. destiny..

hi.. look I have a problem..

(about boiz)

okay...

I am texting with my friends there in our province..

then the first guy asked me to by his gf..
I told him to wait..

then later..

his friends told me that we are "bagay daw"..

then they started to call me "love".

the second guy also asked me to be his gf..

what shall I do??

please help!!


wahhh!!!


I need a royal dose of advice..

tsk.. tsk.. tsk..

??????


enxxx...

@krizii chan06: it's better if u choose the one you love more and loves you back.. don't make decisions that at the end you will think that it's wrong pala.. let them prove first their love to u.. i hope i helped u.. :]

@littlemissbrat: you're at the wrong section, go to friendster help

To krizii chan06;
Hey. About what jemfeng_labao said;

why is that two boys confessed to you so sudden are you sure that they are serious to you?

She`s right. See, most guys in our generation are desperate to have a girlfriend. Well, not all but most. Hve you asked yourself that? Have you asked yourself, "Are they serious?"? How long have you known those guys, anyway? If you haven`t known them for a year or more, then maybe they`re just playing games. All I can say is, don`t believe on whatever guys tell you. Don`t believe at what they`re telling you right away. Otherwise, you`ll be tha one who`ll get hurt in tha future if you`ll think that he`s serious and all and you might give all your love to him. :]

To kapitansino;

Wow. You`re on a tough situation. I mean, you started loving that girl since October `o7 and your feeling towards her didn`t change after she had a boyfriend. You`re wondering why she said 'yes' when in fact she said she`s not yet ready to have a relationship, right? Honestly, I don`t get her. No offense, please. It`s just that, she`s not yet ready to have a relationship YET her relationship with her ex-boyfriend lasted for 11-12 months. How is that possible? How can you believe that she`s not yet ready to have a relationship, huh? Have you thought of that? Have you asked her that?

I really think it`s not tha real reason. I think, she has other reasons that she doesn`t want you to know that`s why she used that alibi and all.

I Was Kikay Girl wrote:

To kapitansino;

Wow. You`re on a tough situation. I mean, you started loving that girl since October `o7 and your feeling towards her didn`t change after she had a boyfriend. You`re wondering why she said 'yes' when in fact she said she`s not yet ready to have a relationship, right? Honestly, I don`t get her. No offense, please. It`s just that, she`s not yet ready to have a relationship YET her relationship with her ex-boyfriend lasted for 11-12 months. How is that possible? How can you believe that she`s not yet ready to have a relationship, huh? Have you thought of that? Have you asked her that?

I really think it`s not tha real reason. I think, she has other reasons that she doesn`t want you to know that`s why she used that alibi and all.

yeah, i thought of it too.
my friend told me the other day that she maybe didn't love me at all.
that she just said yes to me because of "awa".
that really hurts my stomach.
if that's the true reason.

jemfeng_labao wrote:

i agree with jemmie.
or maybe she's afraid that you might leave her if she said that she's not yet ready for a relationship thats why she said yes.
i've encounter this situation and its kinda hard to understand our feelings.
i think she said yes because she knows that she loves you without thinking if she's really ready for a relationship.

maybe you're right about that.
maybe i'm just thinking out of context in this one.
but thanks for your help by the way.

to kapitansino.

well, that's a really good and long story.

and i really feel for you man.

anyways, i think you're a really nice guy.
and i think you don't deserve her at all.
she's totally using you as some sort of "panakip-butas" to forget her ex.
and being with you is the easiest way she could move on.
maybe she did love you.
but not the same way as you love her.
and maybe she broke up with you because of two reasons.

1.) she already move on and ready to date some other guy that is not you.
2.) she felt guilty on using you so she just have to let you go.

that's my take on your problem.
this may not be the case.
so don't divulge yourself too much.
just move on.

rouken wrote:

to kapitansino.

well, that's a really good and long story.

and i really feel for you man.

anyways, i think you're a really nice guy.
and i think you don't deserve her at all.
she's totally using you as some sort of "panakip-butas" to forget her ex.
and being with you is the easiest way she could move on.
maybe she did love you.
but not the same way as you love her.
and maybe she broke up with you because of two reasons.

1.) she already move on and ready to date some other guy that is not you.
2.) she felt guilty on using you so she just have to let you go.

that's my take on your problem.
this may not be the case.
so don't divulge yourself too much.
just move on.

thanks man.
i already decided for myself that i should just let it go and move on.

to everyone: thanks for your help

kapitansino wrote:

guys, I hope you can help me with my problem.
see, here's the thing.

my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago before our 1st monthsary.
the reason?, she said she was not ready to have a relationship with
anyone just yet.

To kapitansino

As I read your post about the background of your

girlfriend/ex-girlfriend, I think she's just using you

Every time she broke up with his boyfriend she want

you to be her boyfriend and suddenly she ignored you

for no valid reason. Yeah they are right that there's another

reason why she wants to broke up with you and I think that

reason is maybe she found another guy. Maybe she telling

the truth about she doesn't love her ex-boyfriend. Anyway,

there's a lot of girls out there kapitansino who deserves for

your love so don't waste your time with that kind of girl if

you don't want to hurt again

^
Sooo, what seems to be the problem honey?