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hahahaha*hmm so confused with my friends hahaaha sort of war-and i dont want to take parts from one of them-hmm i just stay calm and let them cool thier heads first--

ahhaha* a simple problem for me as of now~


okie okie sorry wrong thread mam~hahahaha* you can delete this if you want-my fault

Last edited by xhieen (2009-03-23 17:41:55)

uhm.. i do have a problem with my ex.
i just can't forget him. that's all.
it's really hard. i don't know what to do.

uh. maybe the reason you can't forget him is you don't want to let go.
it's not really necessary that u "forget" him. it's normal to think of your ex sometimes.
but just acknowledge the fact that it's over between you too.

maybe you expected too much on the relationship too.
i mean. you expecte for a perfect love story of some sort maybe?

i guess.
mmm u can do it.
just on't cling too much on his memories.
and get busy. it usually helps when you are too busy you don't have any time to think about him anymore.

goodluck

i don't have any problem i wanna share. pass.

Last edited by gr8sh (2009-03-25 15:23:10)

Yah, LOVESiCK, rawr. I hate it.

♥ Babolgam ♥

`No

`I Dont Have A Problem

`TO My Loeev Ons

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I Was Kikay Girl wrote:

HERE IS MY PROBLEM:
I have this ex boyfriend and a ka-MU. My ex boyfriend and I broke up twice with only one reason --he lacks time. And because of that, I got sick and left him without thinking what would I feel without him. We`re on an LDR. I know it`s not that big deal but for me it is since I loved him that much. I tried to move on and let go but, when the time comes that I `m missing him, all those feelings would come back. But I control them. Then just recently, I found out that my classmate which happens to be my longtimecrush, likes me. And so we became MUs. I was already accepting the fact that my ex an I won`t be together again since we wasted our second chance. But on our number, March 22, we chatted online. He said he misses me. That time, that very moment, I forgot about my MU and placed my attention on my ex. I was happy, really happy. The feelings came back, bigtime. I started missing everything. I started wanting everything back, too. ):

Now my problem is, I just wanna know who is worth for 'my' attention.
I like my MU, I really like him. But he is no better than my ex.
And I am confused about my feelings for my ex. I  miss him, I miss everything. But do I still love him? Gaaah.

I think, you should choose your ka-MU. I mean, since you and your ex were in an LDR, which actually means that you don't know what's happening to him or his activities offline. lol Or maybe I'm wrong. Anyway, there things that you should be sure about. Er, like, observe. Is this guy serious about me? Does he loves me more than the other guy does? XDD
And oh, you've mentioned that you broke up twice, right? Why would a guy let his GF break up again with him even though he already knows the reason. He should be more careful. Uh, I don't know. :}

Maybe you don't think your ka-MU is no better than your ex because it feels different being with your BF than ka-MUs. lol That's what they say. Someone said this to me a very long time ago, and I don't know if this would help. If you love someone, you should accept him whether good or bad. Whether he's someone who's not even as half of your past. Blah Blah. Uh, I forgot.

Moving on..

Now, for the do-you-still-love-him thingy, *breathes deeply. ha!.* You've moved on. Past is past. It's normal if you miss your ex. I mean, it comes. Missing someone doesn't actually mean that you love him. Care. Maybe. Hmm. As friends I guess? Or because you had a relationship before, that's why you care about him?
My question is, are you willing to waste another time of your life waiting for him to ask you to be his GF again? (Which I guess is impossible? ) Or, stay with your ka-MU and he'll love you more than your ex does?

Farrrt. I feel so wasted. I'm not good in giving advices. So, I'm so sorry. I just hope this could help. :]]

My Problem:

Er, about my ex also. We broke up a year ago because he cheated on me. lol Anyway, I loved him so much that I don't know what I am without him. :] He taught me how to love and he has showed me how to be loved. Moving on.. The other day, he showed up and once again made me feel how to be loved. And I learned that they broke up. uh, whatever. But, I'm falling for someone who can never be mine. He doesn't know a thing. I met him somewhere online and he's currently inlove with.. a perfect girl.
And rumors say that my ex is gonna court me. I won't let it happen because I'm so afraid that I might get hurt again. But I somehow feel incomplete without seeing him or hearing things about him.

Okay so.. Am I going to be brave and say Yes to him? *If he would. LOL* Or just say no.. because after all, I don't love him like I love this cyber guy.
What am I going to do? I've got no choice, right? Both of them will cause me much pain.
I need help.

Waah.
I do have a problem.
And I kinda want advice.

Err..
I already have a bf.

But..
I still kinda have feelings fer my ex.
(Which is my boi's close friend. )

Ehh..
Wut should I do to forget that.. that..
Let's just call him retard.

I Was Kikay Girl wrote:

To dark013saber:

First of all, hello to you. :]

Well, in my opinion and based on what I know in general, it is just normal to have feelings for your past even if you have a boyfriend already. I mean, it`s no big problem. Well, not a problem at all! It`s not bad to still have feelings for someone you used to have as long as you do love your boyfriend more and your feelings for him is waaaaaaay higher than your feelings to your ex then it`d be ohkay. :] You loved your ex, and you guys had a thing before. Even if you`re a year or more done, the feelings will still remain, somehow. :] It`s just normal, ohkay.. don`t worry.

Again, it is not a problem dear. You just think it is maybe because you`re confused of what you really feel and I, too, have experienced that.

Waah.
Thanks.
So, it's not a problem.

Phew.
Good to know.

@DARK013SABER
My pleasure to help. Adios! :]

I Was Kikay Girl wrote:

Anyways.. so your problem is about your guy. I know it hurts when you see your guy online or invisible and he doesn`t PM you right away. Makes us wonder why this or that and blablabla~ But before you conclude something, I really think it`s better to confront him. In a polite manner, of course. Are you on an LDR or not? If yes, then it`s better if you guys talk on the phone so that you can clear things up. But if not, it would be a lot better if you fix things in person, talking seriously. But make sure that the timing and the aura of you two is right.

I advice that you should do it as soon as you can. Don`t wait for the time that your trust for him will fade. In a relationship, it is not good that one is concluding stuffs. You need to be open to each other.

yea you're right but since its summer we can't see eachother face to face only thru ym.so how can I talk to him?


sizs i dont know his telephone number and the only way of our communication is thru ym.

and what's ldr?

dark013saber wrote:

Oh..
Well possibly, he might be hiding something.
Or, he's just busy with something.

And oh, don't say anything just yet.
Wait.
Maybe you should just give him some space for a while.
If he still ignores you for a long time, try to ask him what's wrong.

ok tnx sizs.tnx fer that.

Last edited by ino24 (2009-03-27 15:23:49)